I wish.

I wish...
I will I was your favorite girl
I wish you thought I was the reason your in the world
I wish my smile was your favorite kind of smile
I wish you couldn’t figure me out but you always wanna know what I was about
I wish you’d hold my hand when I was upset
I wish you’d never forget the look on my face when we first met


Basically I wish that you loved me
I wish that you needed me
I wish that without me you’d be spending all your night awake
I wish I was the last thing on your mind as you fall asleep
I wish you wouldn’t of lied
I wish things were different
I wish you’d miss me because God knows I miss you more than Anything.


Last night I took a walk in the snow.
Couples holding hands, places to go
Seems like everyone but me is in love.

Santa can you hear me
I signed my letter that I sealed with a kiss
I sent it off
It just said this
I know exactly what I want this year.
Santa can you hear me.
I want my baby 
I want someone to love me someone to hold me.
Maybe he'll be all my own in a big red bow

Santa can you hear me?
I have been so good this year and all I want is one thing
Tell me my true love is near
He's all I want, just for me underneath my christmas tree
I'll be waiting here.
Santa thats my only wish this year.

*Hidden Treasure"

There are so many things we will never see. So many things we will never do.
But the one thing everyone is looking for I have found in you...
We have shared memory after memory, tear after tear; laugh after laugh. We never cease to have a great time, just enjoying each others company.
The bonding that we have done made us friends. Our hearts made us the Best of friends.

Everyone looks at us giggling and laughing sometimes without a word ever spoken and they just watch in amazement because they have searched for this very thing a loving... caring... trusting... bonding... friendship

We seem to have a connection no one else has. ive called you just when you needed me to and you've done the same for me...were not afraid to show each other our tears on lonely nights

Im not exactly sure of the time, date, or place of when we became best friends but unlike a birthday or holiday we will celebrate it year round. Day and nite and in everything we do.

So I think we have won against all odds I found a friend who I can call a real true friend my best friend.So to this rare jewel...thanks and I love You.

I'm Gone.

When I miss you,
I re-read our old conversations and smile like an idiot...
And, if you start to miss me, Remember I didnt walk away..
You let me go..
Next time u come around, I might not even be waiting for you..
My heart already told myself to let you go...FOREVER...
And yah, I forgive you for all the bad things you've done to me..


Seeing you showed me what being in love really feels like.
Being in your arms showed me how safe I could feel.
Being with you showed me how happy I could actually be.
And letting you go showed me how hard its going to be to live without you.


One day, You'll feel the same way I did,
One day, You'll realize I am the one,
One day, You'll cry like how I cried,
One day, You'll miss me like no tomorow,
One day, You'll feel the same way I did,
One day, You'll Love me, But you had your chance, and now I'm gone.

Nobody can SPOIL my Mood stp 105

There is always that one person who can send you a text and cause you to smile instantly.

Recently, I spotted a place in the sea of ​​people.

Gradually began a busy life, as if full of life have never stopped. I also hope that the same enrichment, enriched over every day, even without you around, I hope either you or me can be very happy, even we are in the Earth's two side.

As Christmas is approaching, we also launched the preparatory work. Meetings, reports, budgets, called collections, dress rehearsal. . Everyone is their own position, to work with. All the issues that are in the memorial prayer. Love is power. I believe that relying on the Lord's love, we will do well, very good, the best.

*BAND REHEARSAL MADE ME FEEL .... LA LAA LAA LAAAAA.

Classic rock at heart, yet I do have another side called Alternative. My charateristics are rock and roll. Folk is when I have something to say; rap is when I have a lot to say. My happiness shines through pop. I laugh through country, I cry through the blues, I dance through hip hop, and I sing through opera. Ambient-- my nature, techno-- my craziness, R&B-- my love life, classical-- my relaxation, emo-- my anger, and gospel-- my religion (which is practiced through reggae, my spirituality). Jazz is my superficiality. And for anyone special in my life, tango since two can tango (and they can salsa). Indie is my unheard of nature (and trust me, I am very often unheard). Punk is my rebellious self, which sprung through my deep dark secrets in heavy metal. Acoustic is when I am best heard, soft rock is when I am best known. My confusion is trance. My actions are disco. Generally, foreign = my nationality. Renaissance, my history. And if people ever met me, they'd describe me as rhapsody. I can be best heard through my characteristics, acoustic rock; be rebellious from my characteristics, punk rock; and be natural because it's my characteristic, ambient rock.

I am the music.

My heart’s my only treasure
Been saving it for your pleasure
Can’t wait to give my heart to you
We’ll walk this road together
That leads us to forever
I close my eyes and say a prayer you’re out there somewhere


I’ve been waiting all of my life for you
I’ve been wishing on every shining star
I’ve been watching out of my window
Wondering where you are..

LOVE is something experienced; not forced.

真正愛你的男人

1.真正愛你的男人，一下子說不出真正愛你的理由，只知道自己顧不上注意別人。

2.真正愛你的男人，其實總惹你生氣，你卻發覺不了他到底做錯了什麼。

3.真正愛你的男人，很少當面贊美你，可是心裡肯定你是他最棒的。

4.真正愛你的男人，會在你忘記回復他短信時狠狠地說你一頓（特別是這一條，你好好想想）

5.真正愛你的男人，只可能在你一個人的面前流眼淚，當你觸摸到他時，也觸摸到了那顆只為你跳動的心。

6.真正愛你的男人，會默默地記住你不經意說過的話，在某時某刻重復它們。

7.真正愛你的男人，不會輕易做出承諾，因為他想讓自己成為你心中說話最算話的男子漢，只想給你最可靠最安全的幸福。

8.真正愛你的男人，總告訴你不要胡思亂想，因為其實他在為你們謀劃著最美麗真實的未來。同時讓你無憂無慮地等待他要給你的驚喜。

9.真正愛你的男人，可能不像你一樣清楚地記得某些紀念日，他覺得愛你是每時每刻的，並不是靠這幾天簡單的日子。

10.真正愛你的男人，不會輕易對你當面說“我愛你”，因為他為你做過的每件事都已經這麼說了。除非在非常時刻，為了不讓你無端地誤解他。

11.真正愛你的男人，總覺得有些話只說一遍就夠了，因為你已經了解他的心。說得多了，他會覺得不珍貴。

Let your heart guide you.

A good relationship isn't a game you play or an ego trip you take. It is about love and two people. Loving someone can give us the greatest joy we can ever know and it can hurt more than we can believe too. When it does not really hurt when that person did something disappointing to you, but really hurts when you see that person in pain and sadness, then you know you truly love that person. Loving someone means you should be ready to experience heartache and happiness at the same time. That's the reward and that's the risk. Unless we are willing to experience it, we will never really know what it's like to love and be loved.


Sharing love is probably the most valuable and meaningful experience a person can ever have. And there's a difference between being in love with someone and loving someone. It's the difference between a love that's fickle, wild and short-lived and one that's tender and passionate, nurturing and lasts a long time. The first is easy. The second, the one that really matters to all of us, takes work '' because it's about keeping a relationship.


Loving someone takes efforts. We have to be able to communicate with each other. Nobody can read anyone else's mind. We always presume that our partner knows what we think and feel. Maybe in time we might be able to predict or sense each other's thoughts but it's never perfect and takes time to develop. Getting the chance to love and be loved by someone is blessed. Respect him/her for who he/she is, and not what you want him/her to be. Everyone is pretty and special in his/her own special way. No one is perfect. It is true love which closes the gap of imperfectness to form a smooth surface of acceptance for each other.


True love sees and accepts a person for who he/she is. It is also true love which makes a person change for the better. The power of true love to a person is undeniable. A relationship needs commitments too. What is love without commitments from each other anyway? It's like principles and values. Everyone has them but they only mean as much as we are willing to stand for them.The same goes for our commitments to relationships, and the person we love.


"Love is like an antique vase. It's hard to find, hard to get, but easy to break." Every day everywhere, people fall in love ... but just how many of these relationships are self-sacrificing love, and not just relationships which are formed only for the intense feeling of falling in love? I know hundreds of friends who say the magical words "I love you"... but more often than not, the truth is just '' I am IN love with you. There is a difference between being in love with someone and loving someone. If a person says he/she is in love with you, he/she means that he/she likes you for who you are now and he/she fell in love with you because of the present you.


This kind of love is temporary and lasts only as long as the fairytale lasts. When fairy godmother comes in at midnight to whirl us back to reality, we see the heartache of such a relationship...where both were only IN love with each other. But if a person says he/she loves you, he/she means that he/she loves you unconditionally for who you are now, who you were in the past and who you might be in the future. When he/she says he/she loves you and really means it, you have to ask yourself if you love him/her too or if you're in love with the idea of being in love. It is very hard to see the difference through logical thinking.

Let your heart guide you.

Nobody can SPOIL my Mood stp 104

Is Frustration a Bad Thing?

According to The New Oxford Dictionary of English, frustration, by definition, means the feeling of being upset or annoyed, especially because of inability to change or achieve something. Since frustration seems to be a negative feeling, some people may be tempted to think that frustration is bad for people. They believe that constant frustration may cause serious mental problems. People suffering from such psychological problems often resort to violence or suicide, which poses a big threat to the people around them and thus causes instability to the whole society.


Others, however, hold a different view. They maintain that it is beneficial to people. It goes side by side with success. It inspires people to overcome hardships and difficulties and achieve the final success. People with this view even go so far as to say that no frustration, no success. Indeed, we cannot always hope to embrace success and never accept failure. And most importantly, only if we learn from many a failure can we do things better and finally overcome such a bad feeling as frustration.


Frustration thus is part of our life experience. In our process of growing up, we may inevitably experience it when confronted with situations that don’t come up to our expectations. It is a test of our courage when it befalls us. If we let it control us, we may fall into the abyss of being inflicted by serious psychological problems. But if we harness it and take it as our source of inspiration, we may ultimately enjoy the glory of success.


If there is any single factor that makes for success in living, it is the ability to profit by defeat. Every success I know has been achieved because the person was able to analyze defeat and actually profit by it in his next undertaking. Confuse defeat with failure, and you are doomed indeed to failure. For it isn't defeat that makes you fail: it is your own refusal to see in defeat the guide and encouragement to success.


Defeats are nothing to be ashamed of. They are routine incidents in the life of every man who achieves success. But defeat is a dead loss unless you do face it without humiliation, analyze it and learn why you failed. Defeat, in other words, can help to cure its own cause. Not only does defeat prepare us for success, but nothing can arouse within us such a compelling desire to succeed. If you let a baby grasp a rod and try to pull it away, he will cling more and more tightly until his whole weight is suspended. It is this same reaction which should give you new and greater strength every time you are defeated.

If you exploit the power which defeat gives, you can accomplish with it far more than you are capable of.

**
生活中如果有任何一个因素可以促进成功，那就是从挫折中受益的能力。我所了解的每一次达到的成功都是因为那个人能够对挫折进行分析，在下一次工作中真正得益。如果混淆挫折和失败，你就注定会真正失败。 因为不是挫折使你失败，而是你自己拒绝从挫折中看到成功的方向和勇气。

挫折并不可耻。在每个取得成功的人的生活中，挫折是家常便饭。但你一定要能够面对挫折而不感到羞耻，能够分析它并了解失败的原因，否则挫折就是绝对的损失。换言之，挫折可以帮助解决它自身的起因。挫折不但可以为我们成功做好准备，而且没有任何东西可以在我们的内心激发起如此强烈的想要成功的欲望。如果你让一个婴儿抓住一根竿子，然后试着把竿子抽出来，孩子就会越抓越紧，直到他们整个重量都依附于此。每次你被击败的时候，正是这同样的反应会赋予你崭新的更为巨大的力量。

如果你能够利用挫折带来的这种力量，你就能够用它来完成远远超乎你能力的目标。

**

"Ability may get you to the top, but it takes character to keep you there."

Rock On Everyone

Do you ever feel like breaking down?
Do you ever feel out of place?
Like somehow you just don't belong
And no one understands you?
Do you ever wanna run away?
Do you lock yourself in your room?
With the radio on turned up so loud
That no one hears you screaming


No you don't know what it's like
When nothing feels alright
No you don't know what it's like to be like me...


To be hurt, to feel lost
To be left out in the dark
To be kicked when your down
To feel like you've been pushed around
To be on the edge of breaking down
But no one's there to save you
No you don't know what it's like...

Welcome to my life

It takes strength to be firm and it takes courage to be gentle.
It takes strength to conquer and it takes courage to surrender.
It takes strength to be certain and it takes courage to have doubt.
It takes strength to fit in and it takes courage to stand out.
It takes strength to feel a friend's pain and it takes courage to feel your own pain.
It takes strength to endure abuse and it takes courage to stop it.
It takes strength to stand alone and it takes courage to lean on another.
It takes strength to love and it takes courage to be loved.
It takes strength to survive and it takes courage to live.

Do we have a deal?

You forgive me for liking you too much,

And I'll forgive you for not liking me enough.

You forgive me for missing you so,

And I'll forgive you for being so cold.

You forgive me for the loud racing of my heart,

And I'll forgive you for not hearing it.

You forgive me for playing your games,

And I'll forgive you for toying with my emotions.

You forgive me for finding you so attractive,

And I'll forgive you for not noticing.

You forgive me for raising you up so high,

And I'll forgive you for bringing me down so low.

You forgive me for wanting to be with you,

And I'll forgive you for avoiding me.

You forgive me for being so pathetic,

And I'll forgive you for taking advantage of it.

You forgive me for not being able to let go,

And I'll forgive you for never having latched on.

You forgive me for having hopes and dreams,

And I'll forgive you for crushing them.

Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it.

For attractive lips, speak words of kindness.

For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people.

For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry.

For beautiful hair, let a child run his or her fingers through it once a day.

For poise, walk with the knowledge you'll never walk alone.

People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived,
reclaimed, and redeemed; Never throw out anybody.
Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, you'll find one at the end of your arm.
As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands:
one for helping yourself, the other for helping others.


The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she
carries, or the way she combs her hair.
The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes because that is the doorway
to her heart, the place where love resides.
The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mole, but true beauty in a woman is
reflected in her soul.


It is the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she shows,
and the beauty of a woman, with passing years, only grows!

Don't Block My Happiness

You can't buy happiness, but you can buy ice cream. And that's kind of the same thing. 

Smile; it's a curve that makes things straight.

Happiness is:

1. Falling in love.
2. Laughing so hard your face hurts.
3. A hot shower.
4. No lines at the supermarket.
5. A special glance.
6. Getting mail.
7. Taking a drive on a pretty road.
8. Hearing your favourite song on the radio.
9. Lying in bed listening to the rain outside.
10. Hot towels fresh out of the dryer.


11. Chocolate milkshake ... (or vanilla ... or strawberry!)
12. A bubble bath.
13. Giggling.
14. A good conversation.
15. The beach
16. Finding a 20-pound note in your coat from last winter.
17. Laughing at yourself.
18. Eye contact with a hot member of the opposite sex.
19. Midnight phone calls that last for hours.
20. Running through sprinklers.


21. Laughing for absolutely no reason at all.
22. Having someone tell you that you're beautiful/good looking.
23. Laughing at an inside joke.
24. Friends.
25. Accidentally overhearing someone say something nice about you.
26. Waking up and realizing you still have a few hours left to sleep.
27. Your first kiss (either the very first or with a new partner).
28. Making new friends or spending time with old ones.
29. Playing with a new puppy.
30. Having someone play with your hair.


31. Sweet dreams.
32. Hot chocolate.
33. Road trips with friends.
34. Swinging on swings.
35. Making eye contact with a cute stranger.
36. Making chocolate chip cookies (and eating them...!).
37. Having your friends send you homemade cookies.
38. Holding hands with someone you care about.
39. Running into an old friend and realizing that some things (good or bad) never change.
40. Watching the expression on someone's face as they open a much-desired present from you.


41. Watching the sunrise.
42. Getting out of bed every morning and being grateful for another beautiful day.
43. Knowing that somebody misses you.
44. Getting a hug from someone you care about deeply.
45. Knowing you've done the right thing, no matter what other people think.

Nobody can SPOIL my Mood stpy①o③

At night when the stars

light up my room

I sit by myself

Talking to the Moon

Trying to get to You

In hopes you're on

the other side

Talking to me too

Or am I a fool

who sits alone

Talking to the moon

Do you ever hear me calling?

Cause every night

I'm talking to the moon

Still trying to get to you

In hopes you're on

the other side

Talking to me too

Or am I a fool

who sits alone

Talking to the moon

I know you're somewhere out there

Somewhere far away

Mid-Autumn Festival, an extra warm feeling. Family gatherings will not be less in our family. Rather special for this year, not just family gatherings and even Youth Fellowship have moved to my home. I am very happy and enjoy to see each person's face is full of joy. We love sing, dance and gaming, simply crazy "Kaki !! XD

Some cause happiness wherever they go; others whenever they go.

Music expresses that which cannot be said and what is impossible to keep silent.

TEAM

T- Together

E- Everyone

A- Achieves

M- More

You'll fight with ur best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast-and you'll eventually lose someone u love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like u've never been hurt- because every sixty seconds u spend upset, is a minute of happiness you'll never get back.

"If you're alone, I'll be your shadow. If you want to cry, I'll be your shoulder. If you want a hug, I'll be your pillow. If you need to be happy, I'll be your smile... But anytime you need a friend, I'll just be me."

It's the times we're so crazy, that people think we're high. It's the times we laugh so hard, we can't help but cry. It's all the inside jokes and "remember whens". Those are all the reasons that we're best friends!


Friends are like brooms. New one may sweep better, but do not forget the old ones as they know all the corners.

Just becuase I'm alive doesn't mean I'm happy with what I've got. Just because I'm alive doesn't mean im happy without the person that was meant for me. Just becuase I'm alive doesn't mean I'm satisfied with my life. Anyhow, I am the one who chose to move on, however it wasn't up to me to chose who I fall for.

Thanks, my friend !!!

pls: I can't ever get yuu outta my mind !!

Talking to the Moon

Bright moon, when was your birth?
Winecup in hand, I ask the deep blue sky;


Not knowing what year it is tonight,
In those celestial palaces on high.


I long to fly on the wind,
Yet dread those crystal towers, those courts of jade,
Freezing to death among those icy heights!


Instead I rise to dance with my pale shadow;
Better off, after all, in the world of men.
Rounding the red pavilion,
Stooping to look through gauze windows,
She shines on the sleepless.


The moon should know no sadness;
Why, then, is she always full when dear ones are parted?
For men the grief of parting, joy of reunion,
Just as the moon wanes and waxes, is bright or dim.
Always some flaw and so it has been since of old.


My one wish for you, is long life,
And a share in this loveliness far, ... far away!

A Logical Solution.

It’s been a really really messed up week

Seven days of torture, seven days of bitter

And my girlfriend went and cheated on me

She’s a California dime but it’s time for me to quit her

La la la, whatever, la la la, it doesn’t matter, la la la, oh well, la la la

We’re going at it tonight tonight

There’s a party on the rooftop top of the world

Tonight tonight and were dancing on the edge of the Hollywood sign

I don’t know if I’ll make it but watch how good I’ll fake it

Its all right, all right, tonight, tonight

Now here is a problem that finally has a formula for getting to the bottom of an age old problem.From a strictly mathematical viewpoint it goes like this:


What Makes 100%? What does it mean to give MORE than 100%? Ever wonder about those people who say they are giving more than 100%? We have all been to those meetings where someone wants you to give over 100%. How about achieving 103%? What makes up 100% in life?

Here's a little mathematical formula that might help you answer these questions:

If:
A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z is represented as:
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26.


Then:


H-A-R-D-W-O-R-K
8+1+18+4+23+15+18+11 = 98%
and
K-N-O-W-L-E-D-G-E
11+14+15+23+12+5+4+7+5 = 96%


But,


A-T-T-I-T-U-D-E
1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5 = 100%


And,


B-U-L-L-S-*-*-T
2+21+12+12+19+8+9+20 = 103%


AND, look how far a** kissing will take you.


A-*-*-K-I-S-S-I-N-G
1+19+19+11+9+19+19+9+14+7 = 118%

So, one can conclude with mathematical certainty that While Hard work and Knowledge will get you close, and Attitude will get you there, it's the Bulls**t and A** Kissing that will put you over the top.

When We... ...

When we first talked to each other
I knew we would always be friends.
Our friendship has kept on growing
And I'll be here for you to the end.


You listen when I have a problem
And help dry the tears from my face.
You take away my sorrow
And put happiness in its place.


We can't forget the fun we've had
Laughing 'til our faces turn blue.
Talking of things only we find funny
People think we're insane-If they only knew!


I guess this is my way of saying thanks
For catching me when I fall.
Thanks once again for being such a good friend
And being here with me through it all.

Never explain yourself. Your friends don’t need it and your enemies won’t believe it.

Nobody can SPOIL my Mood stpy①o②

" If you were thinking about someone while reading this, you're definitely in Love. " 

A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.

Today, I return to a student. My company gave me the opportunity that I went to a course. Seems to back up two years ago, the study life. Of course that I will feel sleepy when I'm in class. However, I was very attentive for listening to the teacher‘s lecture. 2 more days to go, buck up !! Some more next week for 4 days courses. Whether Abacus or Amadeus system, sure I will try my big best to conquer it . (=


Live For Today...Plan For Tomorrow...Party on Saturday's night ! Looking forward for the on coming Saturday, a traditional party at my house. "MoonCake Festival" , Let's party together !!

"When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one that has opened for us."

Treat you like a dream, a wonderful dream I had. I hope I never wake up from this unrealistic endless dream. But the reality tells me that you are a mistake. It seens like you found your happiness, I wish I can stay away from you and start to give you up, because I loved you but we have no future.

pls: Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice, but falling in love with you was beyond my control.

"Eleven Hints for Life"

1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.

 2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.

 3. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

 4. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.

 5. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

 6. Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth, even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.

 7. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go, be what you want to be. Because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.

 8. Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.

9. A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wreck a life. A timely word may level stress. But a loving word may heal and bless.

 10. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

 11. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.

Nobody can SPOIL my Mood stpy①o①

I think we spend too much time wondering why we’re not good enough. We waste too much time putting ourselves down that we don’t ever stop to see that we are good enough. We spend too much time with our heads down and hearts closed and never get a chance to look up from the ground and see that the sun is shining and tomorrow is another day.

When you’re young, your whole life is about the pursuit of fun. Then, you grow up and learn to be cautious. You could break a bone or a heart. You look before you leap and sometimes you don’t leap at all because there’s not always someone there to catch you. And in life, there’s no safety net. When did it stop being fun and start being scary?


Life is unfair. You put someone first who puts you second. You study your ass off for a final only to get a c. You give 110% to someone in a relationship when they only give 40%. If you don’t go after what you want, you’ll never get it. If you don’t ask, the answer is always no. If you don’t step forward, you’re always in the same place.


Dreams are real. When you have a dream, fight for it. Don’t let anything stand in your way because that dream is so much bigger than anything else in this cold world. Don’t give in to people who don’t want good things for you. Don’t let them stop you. Fight for your dream, protect it, defend it.


I’m moving on. No more waiting. No more hurt. If you wanted me, you could’ve had me, but you didn’t. You blew your chances. Now, I hope you’re happy living your life wondering “what would have happened if you took a chance with me” cause I’m no longer here. I’m no longer waiting.

“I’ve learned… that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.”

pls: In order to be someone, you must first be yourself.

[轉載] 朋友 不是用玻璃做的.

朋友当然不是玻璃做的，但是有许多人总是把朋友当做玻璃，小心翼翼，恐怕把朋友碰坏了。

所以有时候，明明对朋友很不满，却也不敢表达出来。害怕一旦表达了不满，就会发生冲突；一旦发生冲突，就会伤害感情；一旦伤害感情，就会失去这个朋友，为了一件小事失去一个朋友，太不值得了，于是就忍耐朋友的冒犯，然后，偷偷的在肚子里生气。

一个大学里的女孩子说，她的好朋友特不像话，这个朋友在大学四年，几乎从来不打水，都是让她替她打；而且这个朋友还经常在大庭广众中，把它告诉她的悄悄话说出来；她很希望这个朋友有一天能意识到不应该这样做。但是这个粗心的朋友却一点改变的迹象都没有。

“你是怎样对待她的这些行为的呢？”

“我能怎么样？我假装不在意。”

“那么她怎么知道你不高兴呢？”

“她应该知道呀？”

“你认为她有特异功能吗？知道你在想什么？既然你做出不在意的样子,她当以为你不在意；既然她以为你不在意，当然她也就不会改了。”

“我知道我应该表达自己的情绪，但是，我害怕她生气，害怕影响我们的友谊。虽然她有些不好的地方。为了这些事情失去一个朋友不值得。所以我就认了。”




之所以有这样的想法，是因为他们都对友谊有一种很美好的期待：希望朋友最好永远没有争吵，没有愤怒，永远互相理解。在他们的心目中，一旦出现了冲突就意味着友谊破灭。因而，他们只好回避冲突，结果反而让自己和对方之间都不愉快。

其实，并不是发生了冲突友谊就只好告终一条路。因为我们还有“和解”的技巧可用。友谊是一幅双方共同描绘的图画，当画出了什么问题，和解就好似我们手里的像皮或者刮刀，那么画错了一笔就意味着这幅画要作废。有了橡皮和刮刀，你的画就可以继续画下去。

为什么有些人把朋友当做玻璃一样，不敢去碰，最重要的原因，就是他们不会是用橡皮和刮刀，甚至他们不曾意识到有橡皮刮刀这类东西存在。他没的友谊就像玻璃，一旦破了，只能抛弃。所以他们只好小心翼翼，在这个过程中，自己被压抑着，怎么能感到快乐呢？

因此，和解是交友中的必须学习的技巧。如果你懂得如何和解，在交往中，你就有了更大的自由。你会敢于表达自己对朋友的意见，敢于坚持自己，敢于冒产生冲突的危险。因为你知道，即使友谊一时受到伤害，你也有办法消除这个后果，让友谊恢复到从前。

和解是非常简单的，它是僵持后你主动说的一句话，是你错之后送他一只黄玫瑰，是一个友好的微笑，是一个小礼物...只要你们真的有友谊存在，和解就这样完成了。

不会和解的人，害怕表达对朋友的意见，结果纵容了朋友的缺点，这样维持的友谊是不牢靠的，总有一天会维持不下去。而恰恰是不怕冲突的人，及时把不满表达出来，通过交流解决了朋友间的不和谐，才会有真正长久的友谊。

毕竟，朋友不是玻璃做的，如果有一个朋友真的想玻璃一样，不许你碰一下，这样的朋友破了就破了吧。

Nobody can SPOIL my Mood stp①oo

CHAPTER 100 !!!

All the little pieces falling, shatter. Shards of me, too sharp to put back together. Too small to matter, but big enough to cut me into so many little pieces.

You can’t do anything about the length of your life, but you can do something about its width and depth. You have to take the good with the bad, smile with the sad, love what you got and remember what you had, always forgive, but never forget, learn from your mistakes, but never regret, people change, things go wrong, just remember…life goes on. Take a chance and never let go. Risk everything, lose nothing. Don’t worry about anything anymore. Cry in the rain and speak out loud. Say what you want and love who you desire. Be yourself and not what others want to see. Never blame anyone else if you get hurt because you took the risk and decided who was worth the while.

I love Kuala Lumpur, always a perfect paradise for eating and shopping. But I think I really had control. Bad shopping habits changed a lot. For eating, I'm still splurge. No way, food in front of me, can not stop the temptation.

“The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing… not healing… not curing… that is a friend who cares.”

If nothing else, I’ve realized who I can count on. The friends who can read my mind and finish my sentence. Who call me in the middle of a text message, or answer my question before I ask it. Who tell me what’s going on in my crazy head. I really enjoyed with you while every second of every minute. Every moment is very happy. Although three days is very short, but we are able to cherish all the moments when we had together. *kisses

One of the very nicest things about life is the way we must regularly stop whatever it is we are doing and devote our attention to eating. *BBQ Plaza, I love the most. And I think I addicted to the ICE. Can't live without it. (=


I won't forget any happened any word we talked any moments. Sure, must I'll visit KL again on the next time. Monday, I'm gonna start my job. And I knew that every story has an end, but in life every ending is just a new beginning. I have slowly forgotten part of our memories. I choose not to contact as the beginning, I have taken the first step.

pls: Sometimes you gotta stop and remember that your not gonna live forever. Be young, thing smart, stay true and just follow your heart.

Just for you, SISTAS.

You & your girls turn heads : but me & my girls break necks. When worse comes to worst; my girls come first! A sista is someone who knows the song in your heart & can sing it back to you when you have forgotton the words. (:

HAPPY BIG DAY my sista VEVE.

A wonderful day for us.

Despite many setbacks, but we are still very happy. I’m glad you’re happy. Really. I’m glad you’re in love. Just remember no matter how many guys come & go we’ll always be together. I came to you today for help. I walked up, and without a word, you knew what I needed. A friend, a shoulder to cry on. No words were spoken and I’ve never felt better in my life.

The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers. I think it happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you’ve known forever dont see things the way you do. So you keep the wonderful memories but find yourself moving on. It’s perfectly normal.

:: Singk time ::

Good friends get mad if you wake them up when you call, a best friend asks what took you so long to call. That's why we always over the best friends.

Stick with friends who saw you, when nobody else did. Stick with friends who you can call assholes, and know it’s a code word for I love you. Stick with friends who look at your mistakes, and think it’s kinda awesome. Stick with friends who don’t care when you’re crying, because they know you’re stronger than that. Stick with friends who were true to you from the very start.

One song represent all the way.
时间已做了选择
什麽人叫做朋友
偶而碰头心情却能一点就通


因为我们曾有过
太多感受绝非三言两语能形容
太多决定需要我们去选择
担心会犯错
难免会受挫
幸好一路上有你陪我
与你分享的快乐胜过独自拥有
好友如同一扇窗
能让视野不同
与你分享的快乐胜过独自拥有
至今我仍深深感动
好友如同一扇门
让世界变开阔

SISTAS don’t owe each other anything.