Nobody can SPOIL my Mood stpy①o①

I think we spend too much time wondering why we’re not good enough. We waste too much time putting ourselves down that we don’t ever stop to see that we are good enough. We spend too much time with our heads down and hearts closed and never get a chance to look up from the ground and see that the sun is shining and tomorrow is another day.

When you’re young, your whole life is about the pursuit of fun. Then, you grow up and learn to be cautious. You could break a bone or a heart. You look before you leap and sometimes you don’t leap at all because there’s not always someone there to catch you. And in life, there’s no safety net. When did it stop being fun and start being scary?


Life is unfair. You put someone first who puts you second. You study your ass off for a final only to get a c. You give 110% to someone in a relationship when they only give 40%. If you don’t go after what you want, you’ll never get it. If you don’t ask, the answer is always no. If you don’t step forward, you’re always in the same place.


Dreams are real. When you have a dream, fight for it. Don’t let anything stand in your way because that dream is so much bigger than anything else in this cold world. Don’t give in to people who don’t want good things for you. Don’t let them stop you. Fight for your dream, protect it, defend it.


I’m moving on. No more waiting. No more hurt. If you wanted me, you could’ve had me, but you didn’t. You blew your chances. Now, I hope you’re happy living your life wondering “what would have happened if you took a chance with me” cause I’m no longer here. I’m no longer waiting.

“I’ve learned… that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.”

pls: In order to be someone, you must first be yourself.

[轉載] 朋友 不是用玻璃做的.

朋友当然不是玻璃做的，但是有许多人总是把朋友当做玻璃，小心翼翼，恐怕把朋友碰坏了。

所以有时候，明明对朋友很不满，却也不敢表达出来。害怕一旦表达了不满，就会发生冲突；一旦发生冲突，就会伤害感情；一旦伤害感情，就会失去这个朋友，为了一件小事失去一个朋友，太不值得了，于是就忍耐朋友的冒犯，然后，偷偷的在肚子里生气。

一个大学里的女孩子说，她的好朋友特不像话，这个朋友在大学四年，几乎从来不打水，都是让她替她打；而且这个朋友还经常在大庭广众中，把它告诉她的悄悄话说出来；她很希望这个朋友有一天能意识到不应该这样做。但是这个粗心的朋友却一点改变的迹象都没有。

“你是怎样对待她的这些行为的呢？”

“我能怎么样？我假装不在意。”

“那么她怎么知道你不高兴呢？”

“她应该知道呀？”

“你认为她有特异功能吗？知道你在想什么？既然你做出不在意的样子,她当以为你不在意；既然她以为你不在意，当然她也就不会改了。”

“我知道我应该表达自己的情绪，但是，我害怕她生气，害怕影响我们的友谊。虽然她有些不好的地方。为了这些事情失去一个朋友不值得。所以我就认了。”




之所以有这样的想法，是因为他们都对友谊有一种很美好的期待：希望朋友最好永远没有争吵，没有愤怒，永远互相理解。在他们的心目中，一旦出现了冲突就意味着友谊破灭。因而，他们只好回避冲突，结果反而让自己和对方之间都不愉快。

其实，并不是发生了冲突友谊就只好告终一条路。因为我们还有“和解”的技巧可用。友谊是一幅双方共同描绘的图画，当画出了什么问题，和解就好似我们手里的像皮或者刮刀，那么画错了一笔就意味着这幅画要作废。有了橡皮和刮刀，你的画就可以继续画下去。

为什么有些人把朋友当做玻璃一样，不敢去碰，最重要的原因，就是他们不会是用橡皮和刮刀，甚至他们不曾意识到有橡皮刮刀这类东西存在。他没的友谊就像玻璃，一旦破了，只能抛弃。所以他们只好小心翼翼，在这个过程中，自己被压抑着，怎么能感到快乐呢？

因此，和解是交友中的必须学习的技巧。如果你懂得如何和解，在交往中，你就有了更大的自由。你会敢于表达自己对朋友的意见，敢于坚持自己，敢于冒产生冲突的危险。因为你知道，即使友谊一时受到伤害，你也有办法消除这个后果，让友谊恢复到从前。

和解是非常简单的，它是僵持后你主动说的一句话，是你错之后送他一只黄玫瑰，是一个友好的微笑，是一个小礼物...只要你们真的有友谊存在，和解就这样完成了。

不会和解的人，害怕表达对朋友的意见，结果纵容了朋友的缺点，这样维持的友谊是不牢靠的，总有一天会维持不下去。而恰恰是不怕冲突的人，及时把不满表达出来，通过交流解决了朋友间的不和谐，才会有真正长久的友谊。

毕竟，朋友不是玻璃做的，如果有一个朋友真的想玻璃一样，不许你碰一下，这样的朋友破了就破了吧。

Nobody can SPOIL my Mood stp①oo

CHAPTER 100 !!!

All the little pieces falling, shatter. Shards of me, too sharp to put back together. Too small to matter, but big enough to cut me into so many little pieces.

You can’t do anything about the length of your life, but you can do something about its width and depth. You have to take the good with the bad, smile with the sad, love what you got and remember what you had, always forgive, but never forget, learn from your mistakes, but never regret, people change, things go wrong, just remember…life goes on. Take a chance and never let go. Risk everything, lose nothing. Don’t worry about anything anymore. Cry in the rain and speak out loud. Say what you want and love who you desire. Be yourself and not what others want to see. Never blame anyone else if you get hurt because you took the risk and decided who was worth the while.

I love Kuala Lumpur, always a perfect paradise for eating and shopping. But I think I really had control. Bad shopping habits changed a lot. For eating, I'm still splurge. No way, food in front of me, can not stop the temptation.

“The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing… not healing… not curing… that is a friend who cares.”

If nothing else, I’ve realized who I can count on. The friends who can read my mind and finish my sentence. Who call me in the middle of a text message, or answer my question before I ask it. Who tell me what’s going on in my crazy head. I really enjoyed with you while every second of every minute. Every moment is very happy. Although three days is very short, but we are able to cherish all the moments when we had together. *kisses

One of the very nicest things about life is the way we must regularly stop whatever it is we are doing and devote our attention to eating. *BBQ Plaza, I love the most. And I think I addicted to the ICE. Can't live without it. (=


I won't forget any happened any word we talked any moments. Sure, must I'll visit KL again on the next time. Monday, I'm gonna start my job. And I knew that every story has an end, but in life every ending is just a new beginning. I have slowly forgotten part of our memories. I choose not to contact as the beginning, I have taken the first step.

pls: Sometimes you gotta stop and remember that your not gonna live forever. Be young, thing smart, stay true and just follow your heart.

Just for you, SISTAS.

You & your girls turn heads : but me & my girls break necks. When worse comes to worst; my girls come first! A sista is someone who knows the song in your heart & can sing it back to you when you have forgotton the words. (:

HAPPY BIG DAY my sista VEVE.

A wonderful day for us.

Despite many setbacks, but we are still very happy. I’m glad you’re happy. Really. I’m glad you’re in love. Just remember no matter how many guys come & go we’ll always be together. I came to you today for help. I walked up, and without a word, you knew what I needed. A friend, a shoulder to cry on. No words were spoken and I’ve never felt better in my life.

The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers. I think it happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you’ve known forever dont see things the way you do. So you keep the wonderful memories but find yourself moving on. It’s perfectly normal.

:: Singk time ::

Good friends get mad if you wake them up when you call, a best friend asks what took you so long to call. That's why we always over the best friends.

Stick with friends who saw you, when nobody else did. Stick with friends who you can call assholes, and know it’s a code word for I love you. Stick with friends who look at your mistakes, and think it’s kinda awesome. Stick with friends who don’t care when you’re crying, because they know you’re stronger than that. Stick with friends who were true to you from the very start.

One song represent all the way.
时间已做了选择
什麽人叫做朋友
偶而碰头心情却能一点就通


因为我们曾有过
太多感受绝非三言两语能形容
太多决定需要我们去选择
担心会犯错
难免会受挫
幸好一路上有你陪我
与你分享的快乐胜过独自拥有
好友如同一扇窗
能让视野不同
与你分享的快乐胜过独自拥有
至今我仍深深感动
好友如同一扇门
让世界变开阔

SISTAS don’t owe each other anything.

Nobody can SPOIL my Mood stp⑨⑨

Gradually, its turning chapter 99. I means my blog. (: Among them, how much that the happy things occupy? Do not want to calculate, but at least blog today is happy.

♥ “I miss the days when summer vacation was about relaxing and hanging out with friends. Now it’s all about working and squeezing your friends in when you can.”

Although before the trip, something let me a little sad. These things I can not erase when I smile on. Those bullshit bad things made me angry. I angry myself that why I'm so foolish, stupid and single-minded. Whatsoever, it won't happened in my life anymore.                                        SORRY, you're out from my circle !!

I want warm summer nights, to lie in a hammock, staring at the stars, telling you stories. I want to dip my toes in the water, to dangle my feet off the edge of the dock and sit leaning forward, looking at you, laughing till our stomachs hurt, that’s the holidays we always dreamt about. But we done it !!! XD

Beach sand, perfect tans. Day walks, night talks. Sleepless nights, pillow fights, monopoly, music nights & heart to heart with those who matter most. i will never forget those endless summer days that i spent with you guys.


I was surprised, this is a night without alcohol. Because of my neglect, I forgot to bring our Bacardi. "Party hardy. Drink Bacardi." But that is quite good night without alcohol, luckily we have music with our line. Whatever, you can call me an alcoholic, but I just call it a damn good time.


Memory is a way of holding onto the things you love,the things you are, the things you never want to lose. We must always have old memories and young hopes. Heyhey, just the way we are. (= Soon, I will start working. How many of the things we could work together to solve it? How many times can we travel? How many minutes we have been happy? The answer will come very soon, everything is adaptable.

pls: The only thing standing between me and total happiness is reality.